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I wasn’t expecting you to say what you did, but I respect your thoughts nonetheless. I think you see my unhappiness as being bigger than it is. All I have wanted (since getting to know you in 2009) was to be your girlfriend. I remember being at Penn and thinking, “Why doesn’t Kareem make me his girlfriend?” I had no idea what was going on between you and Tamika at the time, but once I learned the truth, it all made sense.

But what hurt was knowing that you were willing to break up with me and not tell me she was pregnant with your child. If I had not asked you when I did, would you have ever told me? I remember you saying, “Maybe our worlds just can’t be. I hope that one day, my kids can play with your kids, but for now, our worlds can't be.”

Even when you told me how she got pregnant, you said you slept with her so that she wouldn’t feel as if things were different between you after she saw the postcard I sent. So you denied me to her, and told her I wasn’t your type. Do you know how hard it was to hear Tamika confirm this? You told me you slept with her to protect me because she threatened to hurt me. And all I keep thinking is why did you stay with her, and if you weren’t sure about you and her, why bring me into it? I felt like I was just a piece of ass to you. I felt like you made assumptions about me being a slut and wanting to go to grad school to fuck a bunch of guys because I had been stuck in a bad relationship. I felt as if you used this to justify lying to me and continuing to sleep with me and Tamika at the same time.

Still, I trusted you. I trusted that you cared about me. I believed in you only to learn a year later that you had still been sleeping with her. And to learn from no one else but her! What I still don’t understand is why you led me on? She beat you at your job, called me to tell me to back the fuck off, to tell me that you were in her bed at night while you were telling me you were just there for your son… the same line you have been telling me lately. Little did I know, you were sleeping with her still. 

You tried to explain that when you have a child with someone it creates a bond an that the bond confuses how you feel for the person. Those confused feelings led you to go back to her over and over again.

Truth is, it's SUPPOSED to be that way. Having a child should bond you to someone! Idiot. Don't you get it? It's the creation of a life! A life that did not ask for your dumb shit to pollute its world further. Selfish bastards.